My longest relationship (2 years) was with a man who I was casually sleeping with, and we both accidentally fell in love with each other.
This took 6 months for us to admit, because it shocked us so much.
You need to start using some qualifiers in your columns: MOST women.
I have sex just because I want to sometimes, and sometimes I’ll fall in love with that stranger.
I become friends with people and lay in wait for years because I love them (or just want them).
Only if he calls you the next day to make another date can you be really sure.
And if you want to be Evan, stop being so freaking reductive.
So if you really want to understand men, Jean, chew on this one for awhile: Men look for sex and find love. You would never sleep with someone you weren’t interested in. Our words are designed to charm you and make you feel comfortable.