However, if each encounter leaves you feeling a void, then your frustration will ultimately kill the good parts of your relationship.
If you let him go, you will be telling him the truth if you say he's one of the finest men you've ever known, but you two just don't have any chemistry in bed.
And if that happens, I have a somewhat hopeful note for your man.
I, too, Googled , and I had a shock of recognition when I saw the first image.
He'd cheated on me a year before we got engaged, and although it was the worst experience of my life, we obviously found a way to move on and are very happy.